## Healthy Gamer, May Patch Notes Source URL:: <https://www.healthygamer.gg//patch-notes/patch-notes-5-13> &quot;Learning how to be funny and perform in front of audiences has been the biggest challenge of my life.  It has tested me in so many different ways from mastering an art form to pushing myself to socialize, and most importantly learning how to tolerate being out of my comfort zone.  Being on stage is thrilling because it’s so scary.  It taught me a valuable lesson that you can feel terrified and also still do something.  Having a space to constantly push myself has helped me in a variety of ways outside the stage.  I take the lessons from the wins and losses on stage to help me feel confident.  I can handle failure because I have bombed sets in front of hundreds of people and I am grateful for that. &quot;Through the years of doing comedy if taught me some of the most important lessons on how to take care of myself and live a life I’m passionate about.  I realized that self care isn’t just one thing I do to make myself feel better but a concert of many factors that support the wide spectrum of needs I have.&quot; ### Highlights > [!quote]+ %%Updated on Sun May 29 2022 15:39:52 GMT-0400%% > > One of the biggest boons to my mental health is that performing keeps me social.  I have meet some of my best friends through comedy and am constantly meeting new people.  I have always loved that performing has introduced me to people from all walks of life.  I have met some of the most interesting, brave, intelligent, creative, and of course funny people.  It is something I am constantly grateful for. &gt; &gt;Learning how to be funny and perform in front of audiences has been the biggest challenge of my life.  It has tested me in so many different ways from mastering an art form to pushing myself to socialize, and most importantly learning how to tolerate being out of my comfort zone.  Being on stage is thrilling because it’s so scary.  It taught me a valuable lesson that you can feel terrified and also still do something.  Having a space to constantly push myself has helped me in a variety of ways outside the stage.  I take the lessons from the wins and losses on stage to help me feel confident.  I can handle failure because I have bombed sets in front of hundreds of people and I am grateful for that.