Here's what I've learned about boundaries. People don't even realize
that I can be upset about things that wouldn't upset them. I'm people
too so sometimes I didn't have any idea that others could be upset by my
most basic habits or even by my joys. I didn't know that they could want
things that seem so foreign and problematic for me.
There's a fear that can set in over this kind of thing. Not my approach
though.
![[The response to fear is courage.]] Courage doesn't mean putting